Although previous findings of sex difference in response to pornography may have been due to women difficulties in recognizing or admitting arousal it is also possible that real change has taken place since Kinsey's day. Women are now exposed to much more erotica today than ever before and the content is much more female orientated. It is now permissible for women to enjoy erotic magazines such as Playgirl or to view erotic movies many which are geared towards a female perspective.
In conclusion it is fair to say that the majority both and women seem in today's world respond positively to erotic material. It is much more common place now for women to view and enjoy erotica. With this in mind I believe that erotica can be used successfully in any sexual relationship. For example the viewing of pornographic movie can be used as a form of foreplay with both people within the couple most likely physically aroused on viewing the film. I say why not give it a try if you haven't before.